Have them repeat what they say in front of a mirror. People should mind their own business! ~ David Reichardt 

This is based on fear of losing again what you've lost more than once. If it was never really yours, you have to learn to let go so both parties can find peace. ~ Maureen Mooney 

It's easier to criticize someone than to really examine yourself.

If we take care of ourselves we will be so busy we will not have time to get into others business.