On the other hand expectations are also about striking a mutual understanding with someone and one party makes a decision to change course. Therefore it is no longer mutual or equal. Also decide to keep their actions secret for fear of being chastised or suffering consequences and in some cases often because they know you will forgive them. Pushing their luck. Problem with that is if it’s not kept in check it will become a very unhealthy habit of bad behaviour. Some people are selfish. Lines need to be drawn. ~ George Paul de Har
Forgiveness is just a nice way to say, dealing with disappointment. Disappointment just means that your expectations did not get met but last time I checked being human is an equality thing and nobody gave you permission to have expectations for anyone but yourself. ~ Dominic Cavanagh Jr.